Ali Abdaal Video on This Book Changed my Love Life

 

 

This video is an overview of one of the best books I’ve read on dating and has genuinely changed the way I’m approaching my love life—How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love by Logan Ury. In this episode of Book Club we’ll go over the 4 main reasons why dating in the modern day is hard, and then we’ll go over 5 top tips that I got from the book to help with dating. Enjoy!

TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro
00:27 Why dating is hard – Personal identities
01:14 Why dating is hard – Too many options
02:00 Why dating is hard – Social media
02:59 Why dating is hard – It’s a big decision
05:18 Tip #1 – Know your blind spots
07:17 Tip #2 – Don’t let perfect be the enemy of great
10:14 Tip #3 – Stop looking for prom dates
12:35 Tip #4 – Spread your wings
17:37 Tip #5 – Decide, don’t slide